I went to a talk on Co-Victims of Homicide a about a month ago. I learned a lot listening to parents of homicide victims. They talked about some of what they had gone through; what they actually need from people, and what they DON’T want to hear people say.

One of the speakers was the father of a young man who was tragically killed on his second day of work on a job at a restaurant in the U.S. At the start of Mr. “J”s talk while he was describing his son and the awful crime that happened, I could see a huge aura around him. That showed he believed in what he was saying and had positive energy generating out in doing so. It was cathartic and beneficial to talk to people about homicide victims and the grief process,

Then a shape of a young male, who was standing on his right side appeared. I was told by my spirit guide that this was his son. The spirit of the son was very proud of his father and enjoyed listening to the beginning of his fathers talk because it was about him.

When his father got into talking about other aspects of the grief process, the son disappeared because he was no longer the direct focus and it was not as interesting for him to hang around anymore. Just seeing how much the son loved his father and how much his father still and always will grieve for him, was very emotional. I tell people when you are thinking about a loved one, talking about them, mentioning their name, immediately they will show up beside you – if only for a few seconds or a few minutes. That is how strong and powerful our love is and how it extends into the spirit world.

Our bonds are eternal.